Feeling very discuraged

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  1. Midnight_Madman

    Midnight_Madman Montipora Digitata

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    I am really feeling discuraged with all the work I do to keep my tank, and how easy things just go haywire.. it seems like im fighting some sort of neverending war. I may pull the plug soon.. I have felt this way in the past but got through it.  I just dont know.... the amount of time doesnt seem to equal the benifits .
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  3. Birdlady

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    Now, now.....chin up! :) Reefs are definitely a commitment...and this time of year, when things are so very hectic...it is sometimes difficult to keep up with the tanks.

    Take a deep breath....take it easy....and just commit to get through say, the next week or so and after the holidays...when things are a bit calmer....you may feel better.

    Or at least have a bit clearer head....I would hate to see a fellow reefer tear down a tank and be sorry a few weeks later.... :-/
     
  4. Midnight_Madman

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    Thanks. part of being so upset is that we are having like 20 guests here Sat. for dinner and I was so excited that everyone would get to see my tank... and no I am up a creek.
     
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    How long have you had your tank for?
     
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    the 90 for over 1 year.. I had a 55 for about 4 years prior to that.
     
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    Oh, well it is just definitely the time of year 'hectics' that have ya down.....

    and the ick. That is always a kicker. Get past the end of the year and the ick....you will feel better! We are here to help you! :D Hang in there!!!
     
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    Ick...your tank has ick??? didn't see where that was posted...

    what about a diatom filter?? about $80 bucks online (petsmart.com) and their suppose to help with the ick. Of course the ick has to be floating around to capture it...but maybe a schedule with the diatom filter daily will get them out...


    Your not alone Madman, I too am thinking of getting away from saltwater for now. The tank is at my GF house, so I have very little control over who plays with it. And it seems lately, A LOT of people are sticking their hands, and other objects, in there. Her family just doesn't seem to get it, I have repeatedly asked to leave it alone. And they won't. So I may have to let it go until I can get my own tank.

    Good luck, and Merry Christmas all.

    Scoffer
     
  11. Midnight_Madman

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    WELL all of the fish that had ICK now died off. The very last one was a yellow tang that I tried to medicate but no luck.. so now the main tank still looks good.. no signs of it on anyone else yet.
    Thanks for all the help!
     
  12. OldandNew

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    Does UV kill ICK? What did you do to cure your ICK?

    I don't have it, but am asking. With what I have invested now, what is the cost of a UV device?

    Cheers,
    Ray