mandarin goby in a 8.5g

Folks, I don't really know what to say.

When everyone signed onto 3Reef, you agreed to abide by a User Agreement. One of the requirements is no personal attacks. I've seen some of that. I need to decide how to handle this thread and talk with another mod.

I will leave you with this. One of my best friends and I would debate reefing issues on a regular basis. I would trash talk her and she would trash talk me. However, the key words are "one of my best friends". We could say anything to one another and no one's feelings are going to get hurt.

It's important that we try to maintain a certain amount of civility with one another even if we 100% disagree. It's possible to state the same facts and; A) Make someone feel stupid, B) Make someone reassess their position, or C) Make someone mad so they feel they have to fight back. (I'm sure you understand, I prefer B).

 

I've deleted the off topic/argumentative posts. If this thread goes in that direction again it will be closed.