New Baby

I had a miscarriage about 3 years ago and I can attest to the pain. You pretty much have contractions almost as bad as if you were giving birth.

 

Thought I would update...
Been the worst week of my life... a good friend of mine took his own life this past saturday.. right in front of his parents.. was the hardest thing I ever had to go through facing his mom after knowing what she went through.

Baby update.. andrea is having some massive bleeding issues again and we went back to the er. They said your hormone levels are supposed to double every 2 days... ours barely doubled in 13 days... they said to expect bad news when we speak to our actual doctor..

On top of all of that.. today my aunt passed away. Just went in her sleep.

I am kind of numb at this point

Monday was my buddies funeral, tuesday andrea went to the er, today my aunt passes, tommorow is drs appointment where more than likely we are going to find out we misscaried, and friday is more than likely my aunts funeral. What a week.

Thanks guys for your thoughts and prayers...

 

Really sorry to hear, cdeboard. You've been through a bad spell, for sure. Sometimes the good news is that things can not get any worse. Things have to change around for you soon. Keep your chin up.

 

really sorry to hear all the seriously sad news thats all around you. my thoughts are with you cd , and the suns gonna rise in the east tomorrow. things will slowly get better for you and your wife.

 

I'm so sorry to hear about your horrible week. I hope the sun shines soon. Just know I'm thinking of you and your family.

 

Serious downer Hope things start to get better for you soon.

 

Thanks guys.. you all are like my second family.
Tommorow we will known for sure about the new baby.. but things dont look good.
Hormone levels are not going up as they should.. and she is bleeding and passed a golf ball sized clot yesterday. Not to be graphic, but lets you know where we are.
Things are dim.

 

Wow roughness.. we have a 2 year old.. he came so ridiculously easy that we were afraid to try another. She didnt have problems, pain, nothing. Her water broke and we werent even sure. She had a doctors appointment later that day so we just went regularly. They said "umm your dialated 5 and we can feel your babies hair.. go upstairs now" LOL she didnt even push. He just came out. Was really easy. So we knew this one would be difficult.

 

Exactly, things can only change for the better from this point on. I know what your going through as far as the miscarriage, my wife and I had three of them back to back until now that she was able to "hold" on to the baby. Im so sorry about your aunt, the only thing that I can say at this point is that she's in a better place and watching her family from up above. Be strong my friend, esp for your wife. A misscarriage is not an easy event in a womens life. You and your family will be in my prayers.


Luna